Friday, January 28, 2011

Opposites

Two men, hopelessly lost on the mountain, trudging through snow, with night falling soon; one man swears, the other prays.

Photo Credit:  Tess Kincaid

















"Why swear?"

"Why pray?"

One man felt fear; the other, comfort.

Suddenly amongst the clouds they saw a sign pointing toward the woods.  The praying man said "let's go".  The other swore.  They were saved!

Posted for Magpie Tales and Friday Flash 55.

Wednesday, January 26, 2011

Day Into Night

Day into night
Night into day
Watching each one
Fade away

Wrong versus right
Love's evil twin
Where there is hate
Nobody wins

Day into night
Night into day
Watching each one
Fade away

Fire and ice
Cleanses all
Deny ye now
The devil's call

Written for One Shot Wednesday

Monday, January 24, 2011

Quote of the Week

Tortelloni and garlic bread
One should eat to live, not live to eat.
- Cicero


Without nourishment we die, so we eat to sustain life.  Simple enough, right?  However, food brings pleasure to all of our senses, it connects us with people, and brings back memories.

While we shouldn't overindulge, to eat only to live deprives us of great joy.

Friday, January 21, 2011

Does Chinese Food Leave You Empty?

You know what they say about eating Chinese food?  That you'll be hungry an hour later.  Well, this is an actual fortune from a Chinese fortune cookie.  I'd say someone had quite the sense of humor.


But seriously, haven't you wondered why?  You eat and eat until you can't stuff any more in, and in a short time you are feeling munchy again. 

Here are several theories regarding this widely experienced phenomenon.
  • MSG acts as an appetite stimulate, so you may feel hungry shortly after eating.
  • Carbs, especially those with a high glycemic index, makes you feel full but they digest faster than vegetables and do not keep you full as long.
  • Chinese meals tend to be less rich in fat than what our bodies consider the norm.  Since it takes fats longer to move through the digestive system than carbs, a less fatty meal will leave you feeling hungry sooner. 
Do any of these theories hold water, or are we just programmed by years of hearing the phrase "you will be hungry again in one hour", leaving us with that expectation?
    Does this happen to you?  What are some of your favorite Chinese dishes?

    Wednesday, January 19, 2011

    Old Faithful

    We're not half way through winter and we’ve already had three snows, one of which was on Christmas Day.  Every time it snows, I dig out my trusty, old boots.  They’re like a faithful old friend, always there to keep my feet warm and dry.  They have great heart and soul…well actually great soles.  I never slip or slide, and they keep me going through sleet, snow and freezing rain...no, that's the mailman.  At any rate, they've seen me through long walks in the woods, up and down icy steps, and hours of sledding and snowman building.


    So what sparked a post about my snow boots, you ask?  It's like this.  I have had these boots for well over 30 years, (I probably got them in high school), and I mentioned them in a comment to my friend Cardiogirl, who's new boots have been possessed by the dreaded sock-twisting monster.  (She has since professed her love for her new boots despite the twisted lump of sock beneath her left foot. )

    She was amazed that I’d had the same pair of boots for that long, and wanted to see a picture and hear more about this phenomenon of 30-plus year old boots.  To start with, they are not fancy, slick or shiny.


    They are brown suede with a furry/fuzzy lining.  They lace up the front which makes them much easier to get on over your jeans, and at just under 12 inches, they have plowed through snow deeper than they are tall.  Yes...even in the South!  I absolutely adore my boots, and may have them another 30 years.

    The label shows they came from JC Penney, and I guess I paid around $10 for them – a good price even then.  They also have the distinction of being made in the U.S.A.  Sadly, not something you see so much today.


    Monday, January 17, 2011

    Quote of the Week

    Kevin's Flower Garden

    Let us be grateful to people who make us happy, they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom.  - Marcel Proust


    This week my quote is personal...our best friends will be moving soon.  They must continue on the journey which life has placed before them.  Their journey takes them to the far away land of Pennsylvania, the home town of one of our forefathers, Benjamin Franklin, and the resting place of the Liberty Bell, a symbol our freedom.  Instead of being sorrowful because they must leave, I should be grateful for the nearly three years we have had together in the same city.

    My friends, I shall miss you desperately...but I will come visit in the summer!   Long may your garden grow.

    Friday, January 14, 2011

    Detergent Bottle: Fail


    Does this ever happen to you?  Here you are about to tackle that mountain of laundry for which you would sacrifice your first born…a week’s worth of wine if you didn’t have to do it.   

    Your washer is filling as you reach for the detergent…you just opened a new one last week…and you open the bottle and start to pour the detergent into the measuring cap.   


    But wait…there’s no spout.  That’s funny, I could’ve sworn these bottles have pour spouts.  Anyway, you go ahead and pour because you’ve got to get the laundry started so you can get back to your wine go walk the dog.   

    Remember to pour carefully because, you know, there’s no spout.   

    And that’s when you see it!  Floating in the detergent…inside the bottle...is the missing spout. 

    OK, this bottle is defective.  It happens sometimes.

    Did I say sometimes?  Try around a half dozen bottles over the last year.  At first I thought ALL was using crappy bottles.  Then my next bottle of WISK did the same thing.

    Dear ALL and WISK,

    I think you need to have a little one-to-one with your bottle supplier because consumers are getting tired of looking at this in the bottom of their bottle.   

    That’s where the worm is supposed to be.   

    Oops - wrong bottle…



    Wednesday, January 12, 2011

    More Snow in the South

    It's always news when snow hits the South.  Whether we get a lot or a little, the effects are usually the same.  Schools close, businesses open late, church services aren't held, and there are a bunch of wrecks.  While all that is the same time after time, the sights to behold are as different as the snowflakes themselves.


    This is what our street looked like when I went out for the paper.  Our paper carriers, bless their hearts, are dedicated to service.  I shudder to think of all they have to deal with just to deliver our morning newspaper each day.

    We went for a short walk yesterday, about an hour before dark, to snap a few pictures of our latest snow event.  This was one of the "little" ones, only measuring an inch, so landscape photos were not so special. 


    However Man and Nature joined forces to make these interesting spots on the pavement.  I'd seen an oil delivery truck in the neighborhood earlier, and wondered if it had a leak.  The oil, mixed with the melting snow, created a rainbow effect on the street.  Don't they look like eyes?

    This neighborhood has a number of small lakes or ponds, and was actually named for one of the lakes.  That lake, though, has long since been drained and houses built in it's place.  Bummer, I know.


    Anyway here is one of the larger lakes, and Mother Nature made some interesting designs in the ice.  There are round patches where the ice looks thinner and appears to be cracking from the center outward.  I think maybe these lakes are fed from underground springs, and maybe the comparatively warmer water is causing these spots.  Anyone have an idea?


    On another lake, three ducks were swimming on the unfrozen part of the lake.  The overflow runs down a large cement pipe at the edge of the lake, which you'll see in the next picture.



    Here is an interesting fellow.  I don't know what kind of duck he is, but he didn't seem to mind me snapping a few shots.  In this one he even turned to look over his back at me...or maybe he was just settling down for a nap.  Notice the water running over the pipe.

    At this point my hands were numb, the light was fading and it was time to head home and make dinner.

    Monday, January 10, 2011

    Quote of the Week

    May you have warmth in your igloo, oil in your lamp, and peace in your heart.
     - Eskimo proverb
    On the surface this is like a New Year's toast to one's physical comfort and peace in the new year.  By taking a deeper look at it, this is what I came away with.  If home is where the heart is, then to have warmth in your home you must have warmth in your heart.  The light of the lamp is representative of the light of your life, and if you have peace in your heart, then you have peace in your home as well.

    In other words: Home is where the heart is, so let there be warmth in your heart, a light in your life, and peace in your home.

    Friday, January 7, 2011

    Orbit Interrupted

    On a daily flight around the sun, I paused to consider what would happen if all remaining flights were canceled, and we were stuck in this moment in time forever.  Doing exactly what we're doing now.   A scary thought, don't you think.  Let this be a reminder to do what you enjoy. Happy New Year!

     Written for Friday Flash 55

    Wednesday, January 5, 2011

    It's Sophie's Choice

    It looks like Sophie has found a new place to catch up on her beauty sleep, or maybe she's planning to help me with the laundry.   What do you think?



    She was just starting to get down when I snapped the picture.  
    I guess I spoiled her nap. 

    Monday, January 3, 2011

    Quote of the Week

    We find comfort among those who agree with us - growth among those who don't.  - Frank A. Clark


    It's always nice to gather with those of like mind.  We feel understood and validated.  However, sometimes we need to step out of our comfort zone, to stretch our minds and reach a new level of understanding.


    This is our Comfort Zone

    Friday, December 31, 2010

    Happy New Year - Welcome 2011!

    Photo credit: Mike Gifford
    As 2010 prepares to slip away, what can we say to celebrate its passing?  Was it a stellar year filled with exotic getaways, and a new adventure around every corner?  No, it was a year with the normal ups and downs, some good times and some not so good times.  It was a year filled with friendship, love, laughter, and shared moments of both joy and sorrow.  Here's a little bit about what went on in my world in 2010.

    Early this year, we were touched with sadness by the loss of several friends due to illness.  My best friend and her husband lost his father to a long battle with ALS, and another friend and fellow wine society member, passed away unexpectedly. 

    My cat, Rosie, has experienced several bouts of diabetes this year.  The "fix" that controls it for him is Fancy Feast canned cat food.  No insulin shots is a good thing.  I'm thinking I should buy stock in Fancy Feast.

    In spite of the busy year, we had a wonderfully relaxing vacation in Florida, our favorite vacation spot.  Great weather, great food and just chilling out together - could it get any better?

    This winter, we had the most amazing gift of a white Christmas.  Yes, a white Christmas in the South.  It was truly beautiful.

    I also celebrated my first anniversary in the blogosphere by sharing some of the things I'd learned over the year.  This has been a very positive and eye-opening experience for me.  I've met some really great people through blogging, and I would like to thank everyone who comes by my little hole in the wall to read what I have to say.  Every visit and every comment means a lot, and helps keep me motivated to continue along my journey.

    As we move forward into the New Year, I wish each of you a great year, and many blessings for 2011.

    Happy New Year, everyone!

    Tuesday, December 28, 2010

    Lightly Falling Snow

    White Christmas 2010

    Lightly falling snow
    Dusts the ground like
    Powdered sugar doughnuts
    Leaving sweet traces
    On little faces
    Wrapped up in pretty colors
    Bright blue mittens
    And shiny red boots
    Children's happy cries
    And their mother's sighs
    Remembering the days long ago
    Of lightly falling snow

    This was our White Christmas.  It began snowing at 11:15 Christmas morning. 
    We had 6 inches on the ground the morning after Christmas.  What a beautiful Christmas present.

    Written for One Shot Wednesday

    Monday, December 27, 2010

    Quote of the Week

    To accomplish great things, we must not only act, but also dream, not only plan, but also believe.
    - Anatole France

    When you dream, dream big!

    Our goals, or that which we wish to accomplish in our lives, begin as a dream that we plan for and work at, and most of all believe in our ability to reach.  Never stop believing in yourself.

    Monday, December 20, 2010

    Quote of the Week

    I heard the bells on Christmas Day.
    Their old familiar carols play.
    And wild and sweet the words repeat.
    Of peace on earth goodwill to men.
    - Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

    Merry Christmas from our house to yours! 

    I will be taking a short blogging break over Christmas, and will return next week.

    Thursday, December 16, 2010

    A Winter's Day





















    Snow covered pines bend low
    Softly whispering their secrets
    The icy carpet beneath
    Bears the tracks of birds and squirrels
    Scurrying frantically hither and yon
    Seeking sustenance and shelter
    Against the bitter cold
    Hunkering down until the sun
    Shall warm away winter's evidence
    And return to them nature's bounty
    That they may feast once more


    Written for Friday Flash 55

    Monday, December 13, 2010

    Quote of the Week

    What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.
    - Ralph Waldo Emerson


    What we've done and what we've yet to do pales in comparison to who we are inside.  Our beliefs and values temper our life experiences and shape the person that we become.

    Wednesday, December 8, 2010

    Sledding Down Memory Lane


    Many years ago there lived a little girl, and this little girl loved the snow, but she lived in the South where really good snows were rare.  Still, the little girl anxiously awaited the first snowfall (back then she didn’t mind the cold so much).  She would stare out the window at the field next door and study the sky and how it looked where it met the ground, and how the dried grasses waved with the wind.  She just knew snowflakes were about to fall.  Sure enough, one or two at a time, then more and more until it was really snowing.  She was so happy!  She would watch as it started sticking, piling up until everything was white.

    Photo courtesy of Magpie Tales
     When the snow was deep enough and packed down on the roads around her house, her Daddy would take her sledding.  Not just any sledding, mind you, this was special.  You see, her Daddy made some chains for his lawn mower and fashioned a hitch of sorts for her sled.  The little girl donned her snow clothes, boots and mittens, and out into her winter wonderland they went.  Her Daddy pulled her everywhere, up and down the hills, and all around the neighborhood.  Such fun they had!  He would slow up and then start again, making the sled jerk, and off she slid into the snow, laughing.  The first time was an accident, but it was so much fun, she did it over and over again.

    She’s been grown for some time now, but those long ago memories are sweet reminders of how special her childhood really was. 

    Written for Magpie Tales #44

    Monday, December 6, 2010

    Quote of the Week


    Shall we dance?


    The more chance there is of stubbing your toe, the more chance you have of stepping into success.  
    - Author Unknown








    Through risk comes success, so don't be afraid of stubbing your toe.  In fact, by taking risks you come away with more opportunities to succeed.  Remember, it is only failure if you fail to get up.