When you have to make a choice and don't make it, that is in itself a choice.
- William James
When I hear someone say, "I had to do it, I had no choice", I think no, that's not true. You made a decision based on what you felt strongly about one way or the other.
Even when you think there is only one choice, there are two. To act or not to act. You could have chosen not to act and deal with the consequences, but you just felt like to do otherwise wasn't an option.
So, if we are faced with a difficult decision, we make the best one we can based on what we know. We may feel that it's our only choice, but in reality it's the only choice we feel we can reasonably make.
Even when you think there is only one choice, there are two. To act or not to act. You could have chosen not to act and deal with the consequences, but you just felt like to do otherwise wasn't an option.
So, if we are faced with a difficult decision, we make the best one we can based on what we know. We may feel that it's our only choice, but in reality it's the only choice we feel we can reasonably make.




